Hi msouth,
I own two drum sets, but had only one cymbal set-up with them all the years. Just recently (about three or four months ago) I began to check out some cymbals to compose another cymbal set-up for my 2nd drum set, among these some Meinl Bycance, Anatolian, and Istanbul cymbals. The Istanbuls made it for me, finally.
Istanbul cymbals are handmade in Turkey, and they really sound fantastic! Think they are comparable to Zildjian K's but a lot more affordable. I play both now, Zildjian K's and A's with my one drum set, and an assortment of Istanbul cymbals with the other.
I play three crashes with both sets, Zildjian Medium Thin K's with the one set and Istanbul Sultans with the other. Sizes are 15", 16", and 17" on both. I owned a 14" K before which really was too flimsy, but 15-16-17 is exactly what I want and need. Although my band is really loud, I'm pretty sure I don't need bigger/louder ones.
All the other cymbal types and sizes you stated sound just perfect for me.
Cheers, cloth